Relationship

Relationship problems are a major source of stress for almost everybody. What is the secret to a smooth relationship? The first thing is to be genuine about the relationship. Unless we genuinely value the relationship we cannot get satisfaction out of it. Genuineness shows in our words and actions. Set our mind and thoughts right first and the right behaviour will follow. If we genuinely value a relationship we need to have a control over our anger and other negative emotions and try not to display them. There are so many number of ways anger and other negative emotions can be triggered.

But let us remember the mantra is fighting the battle in our mind first. If we win it there we can control our anger in any situation against the other person.

The way to go about it is working mentally on the problem. Building up a good opinion and positive thoughts about the other person constantly is crucial. That will guard against any spike of unnecessary negative emotions in a tense situation. Words once let out cannot be taken back and so are actions. We need to guard ourselves against unnecessary and provocative words and actions.

We need to be expressive. Thoughtful words and actions will not be easily forgotten. Let us try to do them more and at the right time. We need to invest some time thinking about them. It will pay us rich dividends.

Let us not pay heed to gossip talk about the other person. Remember all humans are positive and good at core. So we would not want to snap a good relationship or start a fight just because someone said bad about the other person. Let us always think about ways of mending and not breaking. Let us assimilate this also in to our mind.

So making a relationship sustain can be our onus and if we do the right things they will be infectious because positivity especially in situations of stress is as infectious as negativity.

Let us start working on our relationships and stop the worries about them